Posted by: by surrender4love

The following information is from my personal perspective and elaborates on my own submissive need for dominance. In no way, does this article claim to be the only way for accepted dominance towards a submissive, nor does it mean that what I find true for myself is what will be right for you. Each one of us will have a different experience relative to the individual and that is what makes the enjoyment of the Lifestyle such an expressive form in which we choose to live.

“True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.”
Henry Miller

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Posted by: by BloodLustDaddy

Consensual aggressive play between adults is not abusive and should not be seen as such.

Consent, it’s a simple word with simple meaning. Webster’s Dictionary defines consent as “compliance in or approval of what is done or proposed by another” and “agreement as to action or opinion”. You hear often from those who are not part of the lifestyle that BDSM is abusive. People who are not a part of the lifestyle can often mistake the bruises and scratches of rough play as signs of abuse. The BDSM lifestyle is about consensual actions taken by grown and knowledgeable adults.
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Posted by: by surrender4love

Enjoyed Infraction
By surrender4love

As soon as he came home, he knew. He knew by the way that she kneeled at his feet that there was something she needed to confess. Looking down at her, her head hanging low and her eyes down turned he waited for her to ask to speak. He wasn’t certain of what new infraction that she could have been capable of in the past few hours but by her demeanor it was certainly going to be an infraction worth the punishment that he would give to her at the appropriate time. Stopping in the entry way, with her on her knees beside him, he extended his hand to touch her skin.
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Posted by: by surrender4love

I am a Masochist and it’s not just a personal kink, though that maybe what some people believe. Sure, I get sexual pleasure from being subjected to pain but being masochistic is also defined as a having a taste for suffering. I like that phrasing… “a taste for suffering”. Not my definition, so if that doesn’t fit into anyone’s personal view of the topic take a grievance up with Webster’s dictionary. Masochist behavior is also defined as taking pleasure in being abused or dominated, again Webster’s terms not mine… but I’ll admit that I agree.
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Posted by: by BloodLustDaddy

**Disclaimer**
This entry will upset some people. If it upsets you it means your thinking. If I do upset you, please tell me what your thoughts on the matter are but please use constructive and rational communication. I do want to hear your thoughts on this entry.

There is an aversion by many who are into the lifestyle to being placed in any category or being labeled. I feel that this not only goes against human nature but can be dangerous to those involved.
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