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submissive journal: On wanting a sister

Posted by: by surrender4love on August 13, 2008 @ 11:56 pm

This journal entry comes from Daddy wanting me to explain why I want a sister, meaning having a poly D/s relationship addition for the long term.

Three things that I have always been that will not be changing: Pagan, Poly and Submissive. Those are three cornerstones that make up my personality and my existence.

I was raised as a Pagan and I have never been anything else. Being Pagan, gives me the understanding that as women we are not as our modern society wants to create us to be. We are all beautiful and a part of the world just as we are a part of each other. Women can enhance one another, support one another in ways that men cannot. I see all women as being apart of one another; what I do not see is the need to be made or manipulated into being something that we are not. For example, women do not naturally look like Barbie and we should not be thrown (or throw ourselves) into some societal pseudo-competition in order to look that way. We are all different shapes, weights and colors and that in itself is truly beautiful. You don’t see an Oak tree getting all upset because a willow bends more in the wind because it’s thinner… modern female competition is unneeded, unnatural and unfounded.

Being ploy, I understand that it is possible for adults to have more than one loving relationship at a time. I feel that it is when we separate that love and compartmentalize it, is when people run into issues. The reason, I feel that many relationships fail is because one partner will try to keep two separate partners running at the same time… this separation does not allow for a relationship to flow. A relationship between two people is enhanced by becoming a relationship between three people or more. Human beings enhance one another on a natural basis. Plus, there is that added bonus of more people… more kink but I think that with the nature of this site that’s subject is implied. ;)

As a submissive, I have a drive to please and a high level of vulnerability. Having a submissive sister added to our relationship would enhance both our submissive natures and Daddy’s dominance. In regards to this aspect, it really is that simply stated because I view it as a simple subject. Should we find that elusive woman to add to our relationship, she would have to be submissive and be open to having a DaddyDom.

Now, when I label having a woman join us for the long term as a sister it is because that is what is being looked for. Sure, I want to have another submissive to enjoy and to share with Daddy. Someone to be tied up with me and someone who can pleasure Daddy and myself as well, while being pleasured themselves. I also want someone to have a conversation with. Someone who is a woman in her own right because that for me is what makes the experience in the sexual side of things that much greater. Someone who understands an artistic submissive temperament and someone who wants a DaddyDom. Someone who wants to be trapped but isn’t trapped by the Christianized and societal standard of what a woman is.

~surrender4love
daddy’s baby girl

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2 Responses to “submissive journal: On wanting a sister”

  1. lava says:

    i really have enjoyed reading your blogging you have so much to say that i find so amazing things i wish i could say and just can’t find the words… you sounds like an awesome person and it is amazing how accepting of things you are i do hope to get to know you *smiles* and i hope to get to read more

  2. surrender4love says:

    Thank you Lava!!! I am glad we began chatting and look forward to getting to know you as well.:)

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