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Dragon Fly and Orgasm Torture
A few days ago, Daddy got some new toys. He got the two of the 7 speed wand massagers with a ton of various attachments and he got a ton of rope. Last night he treated me to my first adventure in orgasm torture.
Now, I have never done orgasm torture. The idea just confused me really, because orgasms and torture are both things I enjoy so I thought how bad could that really be? I mean how in the world am I going to be all “Oh, no Daddy please don’t make me cum”…the thought just didn’t make any sense to me whatsoever. 
I thought how torturous could this really be?
As it turns out, it can be really torturous. More so when your Daddy is a sadist, makes you stand up during the torture on your own, refuses to allow you to cum without permission and makes you be silent
He started out tying a lower harness around my hips to secure the wand in place over my panties. Once that was done he tied my arms using the Dragon Fly sleeve. He had me stand there just wearing panties and rope while he turned on the wand and began biting me and flicking my nipples so hard I could barely stand it. I do have to say though, that I was really surprised by the reaction of my nipples. It was already cold in the room so they were a little hard to begin with but when he turned that wand on…they went to full attention and were rock hard with super high sensitivity. My nipple response of course, just caused him greater pleasure as he flicked and flicked them as hard as he could while trying to hold me straight up by my neck.
It was hard to stand up at all, the more pressure he put on that wand between my legs the more aroused I became. The vibrations were so strong coming off of that thing, that it vibrated the rope holding it in place all the way up my body. He asked me if I was close, I said yes and asked “Please, may I cum for you Daddy?” and he said no.
My legs started to go numb, I started to try and shove my face into his chest to muffle any noise that I was making…because I couldn’t cry out like I wanted too. I couldn’t moan out loud, so all I could do was hold it as best I could. My face became sore from the strain of trying to be quite.
When he did let me cum, my legs gave way and he had to hold me up during the strongest clitoral orgasm I have ever had in my life. My panties were soaked, he turned off the wand and when I regained some composure…he turned it on again in which case I did make noise burying my face into his chest and almost biting him. He turned the wand off again and he made me stay standing while he untied all his rope work from me.
Next time, Daddy said he was going to shackle me to the spreader bars and lay me down on the bed. And I am looking forward to that and any other way he wants to torture me in the future 
Sometimes, Online Role Play Shouldn’t Cross Over to Real Life…
Role-playing can be really fun. The concept of pretend for play can add various elements to any couple’s life and can often add some much needed spice to any relationship weighed down by the daily grind. This kind of role-playing can be healthy and an enriching experience. Role play in general is a good thing.
There are many different types of role play. Some role play is an added scene in real life where the participants pretend to be something else or someone else for a certain amount of time. Some role play extends out into public where people pretend not to know each other and try to pick up the other and there are even some where people become fantasy characters for some extra kink. All of these are good Fun, healthy forms of creative kink expression through role playing.
Some role playing can be done online and that can be some fun. Chatting with someone and creating make believe scenes for kink can be a good way to explore some fantasies in an anonymous manner. Online actions can make people feel more comfortable with exploring kink and can enable personal growth. There are times however, when online role play can get out of hand and cross over into real life when it really shouldn’t.
The following are examples of why some of these cross overs should just be left in the fantasy world of cyberspace.
- The person you online role play with thinks that this is their real life
- The person you online role play with is only into kink online and no where else
- The person you online role play with would rather be online than be with you in real life
- The person you online role play with starts to believe the fantasy that was created and rebels against doing anything in real life
- The person you online role play with wants to force cross over into real life and wants you to be the same as online but then refuses to do the same thing themselves
The above examples are just a few areas where one who is looking to add someone into their real life dynamic, should be a bit weary of. If you are not looking to add someone that you have met online into your daily life…then party on and have some cyber fun If you are looking to add someone who you met online into your daily life, take note of some of these examples and be aware of what you may be getting yourself into.
In essence there is nothing wrong with having an online life but when looking to maintain that level of role play, it’s best to just keep it online and not let some cases cross over.
Submissive Journal – Owner and Pet Names
LunaKM posted the following through her online Submissive Journal Prompts: Are you allowed to
have and use pet names for your owner?
That’s a good prompt question, I think. I do indeed have some pet names that I use for my owner as well as names that I am allowed to call him.
I use some general pet names, that of honey or hun and love. One term I use a lot that isn’t that common is “my favorite”. I call him that because he’s my favorite person to be around in the whole world. Those are really, the only pet type names that I use as the general terms of endearment.
I do not use any of the following pet names at all: babe, baby, honeybunch, sweet cheeks or snookums. Even though I identify as a little…I find that those names are just way too cutesy for me and using them makes me feel like an idiot
Lifestyle wise, I mainly call him Daddy. There are times when I call him Sir and Master but for the most part on a daily basis he’s my Daddy Also, he makes allowances for me to use his given name when appropriate in the outside world.
Submissive’s are Needful Things
Men and women in today’s world have a lot of pressure to be both things that they are and to be things that they are not in order to conform with the way that society has evolved. For example, as a female in today’s society I am expected to be sexy, alluring and a master of both my family and my career and that is an impossibility. The reason I say that is an impossibility is because I’ve tried it. The reason that many public faces of women in power seem to be able to do it all, is because they have enough people helping them in all areas…they delegate their responsibilities and do not actually end up carrying it all out themselves.
This is where being a submissive in society comes in, for me at least. Now, I am not saying that all women are submissive because they are not and I am not saying that there is anything wrong with that. I am just focusing on the submissive aspect because I am one.
In society, the submissive personality people tend to be the ones who “suck it up” and get the job done. We tackle the everyday tasks that need to be accomplished that keeps everything else running smoothly. We tend to question less and plod through, sometimes taking great pride in small things only to get oversensitive and hurt when those things are not acknowledged. Submissive’s are the ones that those with power go to for help, so it’s not just about submitting yourself in general but the people who are submitting for a purpose that keeps society moving forward.
Without the submissives, there would be no one for the dominant’s to control. There would be no power exchange, no one to bow down and complete the menial tasks that make life easier for those who have more power or for those who need to take more power in order to function. There would be no one to be responsible for, no one to serve the needs of others and no service industry in society because the dominant personalities would spend so much time fighting for control in order to force that unmet service on other dominants.
In my personal opinion, and keep in mind this is all my personal opinion, I do feel that submissive personality types are vital to society. This is why I have no problem being one. I can embrace my submissive side because despite what mass media and the psychological community say…without the submissive people there wouldn’t even be mass media or the psychological community to begin with.
So, whether you are a male submissive type or a female submissive type…be proud of who you are and what you can do. There’s no need to feel “less than” because without us the rest our society both within and without the lifestyle community…well they wouldn’t be possible at all.
HNT – New Glass Dildos
This week, I wanted to share the other new toys that Daddy got on that last trip to the shop. We choose three of the glass dildos by Doc Johnson that have a metallic, reflective surface. The glass itself is reflective like mirror glass and is not created by a painted coating.
They are also quite cold when first using them but they do warm up with the body heat quickly. Daddy used them with such enthusiasm that first night, that I needed a couple of days to recover on the inside.
This week’s HNT is another upper-half shot. I’m not comfortable yet doing any insertion type shots to share and have just started my cycle…so I really didn’t want to share in that area. Perhaps next week, there will be a tad bit more adventure.
Below is a shot of all three glass dildos that Daddy got. Each one has a different shape. The Allure one on the left is by far my favorite, while the one that I’m licking in the image the Cool styled one.
The last style shown in the Shimmer that has three different shaped bulbous areas to the piece.
Olivia De Berardinis – Banshee
Banshee by Olivia De Berardinis
Erotic artist Olivia De Berardinis has been on the art scene since the late 1960′s. Her work has a depth of beauty to it, as she celebrates the sexual nature of women.
I’ve always been an admirer of her, so today I thought that I’d share one of my favorite erotic pieces with you.
This piece by Olivia is entitled Banshee. You can see more of her work through her main website: http://eolivia.com
On being a masochist when getting punished
When I look up the definition of masochist online, I find the following:
mas·och·ist [mas-uh-kist] noun
1.Psychiatry . a person who has masochism, the condition in which sexual or other gratification depends on one’s suffering physical pain or humiliation.
2.a person who is gratified by pain, degradation, etc., that is self-imposed or imposed by others.
3.a person who finds pleasure in self-denial, submissiveness, etc.
As I look at all three possible definitions, all pretty much fit. I do know that while I enjoy the physical pain and degradation, am not a super fan of dealing with straight on emotional pain. That being said though, there are times when punishment comes along and I enjoy it anyway.
Now, if Daddy is really mad and really disappointed in me then the punishment is horrible on an emotional level. At the end though, he’s all excited and I get excited from his arousal and then boom it’s business time.
I don’t go out of my way to get punished, though. Because I don’t want to displease him. Also, if there is a time when I am just stressed the heck out I can go to Daddy and ask to for pain. Pain can be such an awesome release from all emotional burdens and stress that afterward I fell awesome. I end up being really sore for a few days but then, I enjoy that too.
It is hard to balance sometimes. There are times when I am being punished and I get wet, which just ends up turning me on more and am not really sure why that is. One punishment in particular, I find myself enjoying a bit too much. When I break the profanity rule, and I say something vulgar he started out by correcting that behavior by washing my mouth out with soap. Now though he has progressed and he washes my mouth out by forcing me to give him a soapy blowjob. It’s pretty gross, the soap makes me gag and it takes a while to get the taste out of my mouth and my nose, it sticks to the back of my throat and ends up sometimes making me go to the bathroom a lot afterward. And yet…I like it. Why? I don’t know. Now, that’s not to say that I break that rule on purpose, I do not but Daddy mentioned to me last night that if I just wanted some soapy penis in general to just ask. I haven’t yet, though.
MST3K – Outlaw of Gor
Due to being busy this past weekend, I was unable to work on the funny clips for your enjoyment. So, I thought that for today I would share a funny review of the movie of Outlaw of Gor. Yes, it is true they made a movie back in 1989 based on John Norman’s Gor series. Here we both take a look at the movie and Mystery Science Theater 3000′s funny observations on the film.
Repost – DaddyDom: What It Means for his babygirl
*This was a post that I wrote back in 2008. It seemed to connect with quite a few people, so I wanted to repost to make it easier for you guys to find
I think there are a lot of people who have misconceptions about the DaddyDom/baby girl concept of a relationship. I’ve noticed that even within the lifestyle community, many people look down on this aspect because they carry over the misconceptions from the vanilla world. Also, as with all human nature there is a tendency to attack what is not understood and I find that this goes on in any sub-culture social network just as it does with mainstream society.
Let’s start off by taking a look at what a DaddyDom/baby girl relationship is NOT about.
- It is not about incest
- It is not about degradation
- It is not about pedophilia
- It is not about total psychological manipulation
- It is not about slavery
- It is not about sexual Freudian ideals
Now that above is out of the way, I am going to explain what being a in a DaddyDom/baby girl relationship is all about for me. I realize that everyone’s experience is different and I am not advocating what goes on in my relationship as being a standard in any way. I am just going over what personally works about this aspect of the lifestyle for me. You may agree and you may disagree, both of which you have the right to do. And as consenting adults in a lifestyle relationship what we do with ours is our right as well.
I am an adult woman, thirty-four years old who has retained my childlike enthusiasm and excitement over just about everything. I am also naive and gullible when it comes to the outside world. I am one of those people who want to believe the good in every one, which when added to my natural submissive nature puts me at risk with the outside world, social predators and other’s who have a stronger personality and temperament then I do. The bonus that I have going for me is that I am also smart enough to realize these things about myself and understand my own vulnerabilities. Unfortunately, I also have a tendency to be used, lied to and manipulated by predatory personality types; I often do not realize what is going on until events start to happen and I end up in situations that I won’t understand until after they have occurred. In short, I need to be protected and I know that.
Being a submissive, I have a drive to please and to put all other’s before myself. I strive to help people by serving them and fulfilling their needs in emotional, material and physical ways. I have a habit of doing these things to my own detriment. I give all that I can until I am a exhausted on all levels with no ability to stop myself from doing so. I need to be able to fulfill this drive in an environment that is safe, emotionally productive and physically healthy.
Now, I won’t go into the rest of what makes up my personality and how I work internally but suffice it to say that in all regards I need more than the standard aspect of a Dom, I need a DaddyDom and that is what and who BloodLustDaddy has become. Keep in mind though, that I did not realize that is what I needed until our relationship naturally went in that direction.
BloodLustDaddy is many things for me. He is the love of my life, my Dominant, my Master, the center of my world and he is my Daddy. He has total control of my life and he shapes my world as well as shapes me into a better person using my natural abilities. All my needs are met, expanded and developed by his control and his guidance. Because we do have a stable foundation of love, trust and respect I think that enables me to believe in him, even when I cannot believe in myself. I think an important part of him being my Daddy is that by shaping me as a person he takes great pride and joy in what I can accomplish. He pushes my limits and even though I do get scared, I have complete trust in him that what he does to me and for me is in my best interest and in the best interest of our relationship. I worship him as my provider, protector, lover and reveal in all that makes him who he is as a person both in our relationship and in the outside world. I defer to his guidance and his care and as such he has become my Daddy. And as Daddy’s baby girl I am more than a submissive woman, I am the center of his world and his heart.
Daddy’s love and dominance is both controlling and caring. He wants me to succeed because when I do so, then he succeeds as well. As his baby girl I am an extension of who he is, an outward reflection of his dominance and what that power he holds can do.
In a way, our D/s relationship is almost like an alternative version of a “traditional” 1950′s relationship with the added bonus of TPE and BDSM. In the fifties it wasn’t uncommon for the woman to call her husband her Daddy. The Daddy provided for her, cared for her and she was seen as an extension of him. The “little woman” at home was a direct product of what the Daddy, as a man could and should do in the terms of society at the time. Daddy was the problem solver, the fixer, the glue that held the family together against all odds and he was the punisher keeping his family in line and in working order. Daddy’s in society were very common until the sexual revolution. Also, just an interesting thing to note is that men in general were not depicted as bumbling idiots who couldn’t run a home or family until after the sexual revolution took place…just saying.
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