Posted by: by surrender4love

Personally, I feel that in our day to day relationship that having expectations are harder to keep up with than rules. Before I get started on that topic, I do want to say that what follows are my personal thoughts and feelings on the matter. I am in no way saying that one way is better or worse. I am just stating what works for our relationship.

With the rules you have punishment. Rules are set and not always maintained leading to punishment. Now, this is not to say that BloodLustDaddy does not whip me just for amusement because he does and he does have the right to punish me when he sees fit which can be outside of the rules being set. What I am saying here, is that in my view point the biggest reason for lists of rules within a relationship is to manage punishments in a way to keep punishments happening. I am not saying that a sub/slave needs to be punished all the time but there is something about punishments that a sub/slave needs or they would not get into the lifestyle in the first place. Also, a Dom/Master who has a perfect sub/slave with no punishments ever required doesn’t fulfill their need to punish beyond exerting basic control.
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Posted by: by surrender4love

I enjoyed today, enjoyed the closeness and am excited that he will be home for another day. Now, I know that it sounds as though he were going some large distance when he really just goes to the next town to work and is home every night. The shortness of distance doesn’t mean that I like it any less.

What has always been interesting to me with BloodLustDaddy is that he is the only person that I have been able to be around all the time. Normally with me I need a certain amount of personal space in a relationship. I have never been able to be around someone as much as possible and not get tired of them or end up needing a break from them for a day or so. With BloodLustDaddy, I have never needed that space from him at all and what’s more I don’t want that space away from him.
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