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08-11-2008 :: Musical Monday
This week we have “Abuse Me” by “Silverchair”, another song with not so subtle references to sadism and masochism.
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The death of Sir, the birth of Daddy…
It was never what I expected to happen, the term “DaddyDom” was something that always made me think of extreme age play, diapers and really unsavory thoughts… the type that make you shiver in the middle of your back with disgust. When my girl and I first got together it was agreed that “DaddyDom” was something neither of us were interested in and we agreed the thought was a huge turnoff.
We had spoken at length many times over the similarities of a parental figure and a dominant with the structure, discipline, providing needs and encouragement for growth. I provide her all the essential requirements for life; have her focus on health, education and happiness rather than providing extra income. When she is sick I am responsible for making sure that she gets better, I support her on her personal and spiritual growth. I encourage and foster her creative side while discouraging negative behavior. In many ways my tasks as her dominant are much like the tasks of a loving parent.
It happened so fluidly, naturally and was triggered by an almost joking session of role playing. We had read an entry on one of the forums relating to a girl calling her Dom by the title of “Daddy” and decided to play out the role for some sexual fun that night… this was almost 7 months ago and it was a lot of fun. The role play did not feel as weird as we thought it would and was extremely satisfying. After the play we agreed that we both liked it and that in the future if I called her “baby girl” that she was to fall into that frame of mind for play. We had only made this arrangement for play and never expected to see any flake of it outside of the bedroom.
It is still surprising how it happened because neither of us even noticed it at the time, a whispered “I love you daddy” or “your a good little girl” while out to dinner, a giggled “was I a good girl daddy?” or “you make daddy proud” slipped into our daily flirting with each other. As time went by it kept appearing more and more in our daily dealings with each other and the “smack, spank, blood and bruises” Sir that had been so prevalent in the beginning stopped being the norm. Neither of us were consciously aware of the frequency it was happening until it fell across my ears this weekend while we were out.
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Tags fixed…
I noticed looking at the site logs that the tags on the side were not working for people and whenever someone tried to go to /tags/ they would get a “page not found” error. I have fixed these issues so please feel free to browse around again.
Sorry about that, it was a bug in the version of wordpress I am running.
~~conquer4love~~
There’s a God with a whip!
Beltane by Sharyn Turner
No, I don’t mean that God. Set your minds lower to the dirtier, animalistic side of the spiritual; the Pagan side. My Horned God and all that is male centered with the universe as a whole comes to me through Conquer4love. He is my physical male representative of the divine and it’s not all because he whips me. When I look at him and obey him, in a sense I am falling in line under the will of his spirit and in doing so, I honor my own spirit as well.
Our sexual and personality preferences are not something that we can detach. The same goes for our spirituality, it is not a detachable or an interchangeable aspect of who we are… it just simply is who we are.
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08-04-2008 :: Musical Monday
Every Monday starting this week I will share a new song or music video with underlying BDSM or sex themes (even if they are just imagined). This will force me to listen to more obscure music, work on my own bondage playlist and get a giggle. If you have any suggestions please feel free to comment and let me know.
This week we have “(Let Me Be Your) Dirty Fucking Whore” by the always amusing “Machine Gun Fellatio“… notice the very light underlying sex tones? You might have to listen closely to hear it.
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Contact form was offline…
Damn spammers are persistent! I had to disable the “Contact Us” and “Sponsor Contact” form because I was getting spammed from it, I have fixed it and turned it back on now.
If you were someone trying to send a legitimate communication please try again and I am sorry for the inconvenience.
~~conquer4love~~
Geek lovers FTW.
I felt this article just had to be linked to and required comments of my own:
The 10 Real Reasons Why Geeks Make Better Lovers
The items that I really feel should be highlited are:
More than one geek has told me that Home Depot is their favorite adult store.
Of course, where else can you get little metal clips that will support the full weight of three adults swinging from the ceiling in a homemade sex swing?
Geeks dig consensual role playing
Woof, Woof… rape play… nuff said 
Geeks don’t shock easily
Very true, I have seen things that would make a vanilla person never want to see an bunghole or vagina again…
Geeks haven’t just seen a variety of positions, kinks and fetishes in blue movies. They know (or are) people who enjoy those things
Very true, every geek I know is either a kinkster or knows a kinkster.. perhaps this is because of seeing the most fucked up shit… after some of the things we have seen perhaps kink is the only way to get off anymore.
So what about you? Are you a geek and a kinkster? Leave a comment and shout out if your a geekster or nerdlinger. I am interested in how many readers qualify.
~~conquer4love~~
The requirement of spirituality….
Photo courtesy of:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/photophreak/87151257/
I think it is time I delve a bit deeper into what it is that makes our relationship so special. BDSM, D/s, M/s, Bondage, Pet Play, Blood Play, Bruises and ropes are just a small part of what makes our relationship so special. All of the above are fun in and of themselves but both of us are very “self aware”, our relationship is not just about blood, beatings and sex… its also about spirituality.
Many people are happy and content to just be slapped around and have a cock shoved down their throat, if this was the depth of my interests I live in a state where prostitution is completely legal and you can get any kink filled for the right amount of money. My life and relationship has a major focus on self-improvement and spirituality so the aggressive and violent stuff is just a bonus not the end goal.
We find the spirituality of BDSM to complement deeply our views on things like Green Living, Chakra Energy, Paganism (not Wiccan), Health Awareness and improving ourselves through understanding of our strengths and weaknesses. Anyone wishing to join in with us must be willing to look into themselves and be comfortable with what they find.
Keep reading to find out what sort of people are unacceptable for more than sexual play and why they are unacceptable…
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surrender4love journal: our rape scene last night
Now, I have been raped before. Unwilling, forced and being completely emotionally terrified has all happened to me before. Not during a scene and not with anyone that I would have wanted to do a scene like that with.
Last night, we did our first forced rape scene. He told me to fight him and I did. He was aggressive and overbearing, mean and just in the mind set of taking it; which he did. I gave him a hard time of it. With one hand I kept squirming out of the rope, using the strength of my legs to keep moving away and trying to force my legs together. Had we been in an area in which we could have gone all out the rape and fighting would have been much more violent.
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Living with an unreasonable man
Conquer4love is opinionated, strong in his core values and unshakable in compromise. His way of life, is truly “My way or the highway”. His unreasonable nature is for me, one of the greatest things about him and what makes him an ideal Dom. He is made for dominance and he owns that aspect of himself.
Too many people skim over the surface of life being unsure of what they want. Not knowing who they are or where they stand on things; not so with Conquer4love. I never have to worry about him not making a decision on anything. I never have to worry about him not allowing his dominance to be a part of everyday life. I never have to be put in the position of “toping from the bottom” in order to get through the day to day things of life; something that I have dealt with from men in past relationships.
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- Views of a stubborn slave
- Gorean Refuge
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- Pierced Panties
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- Roxy’s Flog Blog
- BDSM is Love
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- Kitten In Chains
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