Posted by: by surrender4love

Thursday was the day set to dye my hair. So, first thing that morning BloodLustDaddy took my collar off so that I wouldn’t get it all gooped up with hair dye. I had tried to prepare myself for the day, tried to emotionally get ready for being without my collar by telling myself over and over that I could handle it. Little did I realize how unprepared I actually was.

Because the second he removed my collar the whole world turned upside down and set the stage for the rest of the day.
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Posted by: by surrender4love

The following information is from my personal perspective and elaborates on my own submissive need for dominance. In no way, does this article claim to be the only way for accepted dominance towards a submissive, nor does it mean that what I find true for myself is what will be right for you. Each one of us will have a different experience relative to the individual and that is what makes the enjoyment of the Lifestyle such an expressive form in which we choose to live.

“True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.”
Henry Miller

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Posted by: by BloodLustDaddy

Consensual aggressive play between adults is not abusive and should not be seen as such.

Consent, it’s a simple word with simple meaning. Webster’s Dictionary defines consent as “compliance in or approval of what is done or proposed by another” and “agreement as to action or opinion”. You hear often from those who are not part of the lifestyle that BDSM is abusive. People who are not a part of the lifestyle can often mistake the bruises and scratches of rough play as signs of abuse. The BDSM lifestyle is about consensual actions taken by grown and knowledgeable adults.
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