Posted by: by surrender4love on July 31, 2008 @ 12:06 am

Conquer4love is opinionated, strong in his core values and unshakable in compromise. His way of life, is truly “My way or the highway”. His unreasonable nature is for me, one of the greatest things about him and what makes him an ideal Dom. He is made for dominance and he owns that aspect of himself.

Too many people skim over the surface of life being unsure of what they want. Not knowing who they are or where they stand on things; not so with Conquer4love. I never have to worry about him not making a decision on anything. I never have to worry about him not allowing his dominance to be a part of everyday life. I never have to be put in the position of “toping from the bottom” in order to get through the day to day things of life; something that I have dealt with from men in past relationships.
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Posted by: by conquer4love on April 7, 2008 @ 1:00 am

**start-note** It should be noted that the explanations I use bellow are in reference to OUR Long Term 24/7 TPE and not to people who come in for short to medium term play. This post should not be assumed to represent the ideals or thoughts of any other dominant that you come across, in fact I find them to be a little uncommon when speaking to many other doms in the world.**end-note**

Dominance in the family and relationship is important and one of the major factors to the success of our relationship.
I have been in many vanilla relationships in the past but they were always tarnished with the back and forth power plays that plaque most “equal” couples. Our D/s relationship has allowed me to take the reigns in our relationship and direct where the family goes, where we focus our efforts and how we get where we are going.
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Posted by: by surrender4love on April 5, 2008 @ 3:42 am

Thursday was the day set to dye my hair. So, first thing that morning Conquer4love took my collar off so that I wouldn’t get it all gooped up with hair dye. I had tried to prepare myself for the day, tried to emotionally get ready for being without my collar by telling myself over and over that I could handle it. Little did I realize how unprepared I actually was.

Because the second he removed my collar the whole world turned upside down and set the stage for the rest of the day.
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Posted by: by surrender4love on March 30, 2008 @ 2:40 am

The following information is from my personal perspective and elaborates on my own submissive need for dominance. In no way, does this article claim to be the only way for accepted dominance towards a submissive, nor does it mean that what I find true for myself is what will be right for you. Each one of us will have a different experience relative to the individual and that is what makes the enjoyment of the Lifestyle such an expressive form in which we choose to live.

“True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.”
Henry Miller

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