Posted by: by conquer4love on August 3, 2008 @ 11:25 pm

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I think it is time I delve a bit deeper into what it is that makes our relationship so special. BDSM, D/s, M/s, Bondage, Pet Play, Blood Play, Bruises and ropes are just a small part of what makes our relationship so special. All of the above are fun in and of themselves but both of us are very “self aware”, our relationship is not just about blood, beatings and sex… its also about spirituality.

Many people are happy and content to just be slapped around and have a cock shoved down their throat, if this was the depth of my interests I live in a state where prostitution is completely legal and you can get any kink filled for the right amount of money. My life and relationship has a major focus on self-improvement and spirituality so the aggressive and violent stuff is just a bonus not the end goal.

We find the spirituality of BDSM to complement deeply our views on things like Green Living, Chakra Energy, Paganism (not Wiccan), Health Awareness and improving ourselves through understanding of our strengths and weaknesses. Anyone wishing to join in with us must be willing to look into themselves and be comfortable with what they find.

Keep reading to find out what sort of people are unacceptable for more than sexual play and why they are unacceptable…
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Tags: bdsm, bdsm spirituality, body mind connection, chakra, collar, conquer4love, D/s, Edge Play, ego, Id, Id/ego, John Money, M/s, meditation, paganism, Pet Play, princess sub, pussy, self-improvement, Sigmund Freud, spirituality, vanilla

Category: In Real Life, Relationship, spirituality, submission

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Posted by: by conquer4love on July 8, 2008 @ 3:31 am

Though many consider it a hard limit blood sport is something that surrender4love and I engage in from time to time. Needles, razors, a sharp pocket knife passed down from a loved one… for us this is not a limit it’s just another fetish.

I have never really understood why so many people consider blood sport a hard limit when there is such a substantial and thriving vamp subculture in even small urban areas today. Many people have been polite enough to point out (in not so polite ways) the issues concerning blood borne diseases to which I respond that we are both tested and are currently in a fluid monogamous relationship. If our relationship ever moves to not being fluids faithful then we will of course be much more cautious until we both have clean bills of health over a lengthy period of time.
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Tags: bdsm, blood, blood fetish, blood play, blood sport, bondage, conquer4love, death, drinking blood, Edge Play, endorphins, sex, soul

Category: Edge Play

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