Too many people skim over the surface of life being unsure of what they want. Not knowing who they are or where they stand on things; not so with BloodLustDaddy. I never have to worry about him not making a decision on anything. I never have to worry about him not allowing his dominance to be a part of everyday life. I never have to be put in the position of “toping from the bottom” in order to get through the day to day things of life; something that I have dealt with from men in past relationships.

As a female, I don’t see anything wrong with his statements on women. And this is not just because I am his sub. If I had a problem with his views on women, I wouldn’t be here. We are trained to manipulate men. To take their masculinity away from them is a part of the learning social structure of female’s in our society. If you are upset by his statements, more than likely it’s not his words that have angered you but it his honesty of what he is saying that you find hard to face within yourself and in society.

I never embraced the training of men growing up and because of that every relationship that has come before now has failed. Once in a relationship, I refused to try and train the man even when instructed to do so by their own mother. I refused to be a “nag”, refused to be another mother to them and refused to be their responsibility scapegoat. By refusing to act as what society would expect the vanilla relationships to perform as, the relationships had no possibility of being successful by today’s standards.

Men are not weak on their own; we and the society that we live in make them that way. The mainstream media helps to perpetuate the inane ideal that a man must be macho and stupid. Men are shown to be bumbling about through life unable to make a decision about anything on their own without a woman coming by to save him from himself. We’re not saviors, ladies we are nurtures and it’s about time we owned that as well.

Now, when BloodLustDaddy has a command and I don’t fully understand where he is coming from…I still perform the command. I trust in his being unreasonable and in his right to do what he does even if there is no other reason for it other than his personal gratification.

~surrender4love~