Posted by: by conquer4love on November 19, 2008 @ 12:41 am

Owl and Pussy Cat

Surrender4love looks up to me as daddy, mentor, tutor, master, provider and when she fails or does not do as requested of her then judge, juror and executioner of sorts. I have never been the sort of person to want a pre-trained submissive because my rules, desires and preferences are different than the person they may have learned from.

As her daddy I also act as her wise (not so old) owl to guide her and help her grow into a better and more structured person, to help her embrace her submission, creativity and free spirit.

She brings into my life the simple things that she falls in love with like the leaves as they change color, the rain on a summers day, the grass stains on the bottom of her feet and catching snowflakes on the tongue. As the provider I often do not notice these things in the rush to provide for the family and do what needs to be done… the little things in life that we should be enjoying get missed on a daily basis until I hear her little giggle or gasp of awe.

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Tags: babygirl, Control, D/s, daddy, desires, dominant, dynamic, happiness, learning, love, mentor, owl, provider, sacrifice, submissive

Category: Essential Reading, In Real Life, Relationship, Uncategorized, daddydom, dominance, submission

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Posted by: by conquer4love on June 29, 2008 @ 11:32 pm

There has been a resurgence on the net again of those who don’t understand the “submission is a gift” stance and try to discredit it using comments such as “I don’t give my submission, my master takes it” and “he makes me submit, I don’t have a choice”… and then we have the “True Masters” who make brash and asinine statements such as “her submission is not a gift, its what I am entitled to as a master” and I have to call Bull Shit. Let’s put this shit in its proper place right now. This posting comes after a 4+ page conversation over at CollarMe about the topic and people who “just don’t get it” and who feel it “drives them up the wall”.
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Tags: conquer4love, gift, gor, gorean, grow up, law, love, master, real, slave, stfu, submission, submissive, the true way, true

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Posted by: by conquer4love on May 31, 2008 @ 2:12 am

Hello, conquer4love here. Things have been busy but are starting to settle down. I do not have a specific topic for a post today, just a bunch of general thoughts that I am going to toss out there. Please consider these as a glimpse into our life with an emphasis on my mind and ideals.
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Tags: associates, conquer4love, dominance, drama, family, friends, love, partners, pet, responsibility, sex, submissive

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Posted by: by conquer4love on May 24, 2008 @ 1:45 am

My girl is on her spot, sitting on her knees with legs spread. She is holding her hands behind her neck, ready to be bound or positioned to my pleasure. Her face and eyes are turned down and to the left, her submissiveness further fed by her natural shyness at being unclothed. I crave her.
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Tags: belt, conquer4love, dominance, life, love, shyness, submission, time

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Posted by: by surrender4love on April 5, 2008 @ 3:42 am

Thursday was the day set to dye my hair. So, first thing that morning Conquer4love took my collar off so that I wouldn’t get it all gooped up with hair dye. I had tried to prepare myself for the day, tried to emotionally get ready for being without my collar by telling myself over and over that I could handle it. Little did I realize how unprepared I actually was.

Because the second he removed my collar the whole world turned upside down and set the stage for the rest of the day.
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Tags: bdsm, collar, D/s, dominance, dominate, love, M/s, panic, submission, submit, surrender4love

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