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08-18-2008 :: Musical Monday (One day late)
Not only is this a great song with a nice D/s M/s undertone the artist is just HOT!
“Johnny Feelgood” by “Liz Phair“, a sample of the lyrics:
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The requirement of spirituality….
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I think it is time I delve a bit deeper into what it is that makes our relationship so special. BDSM, D/s, M/s, Bondage, Pet Play, Blood Play, Bruises and ropes are just a small part of what makes our relationship so special. All of the above are fun in and of themselves but both of us are very “self aware”, our relationship is not just about blood, beatings and sex… its also about spirituality.
Many people are happy and content to just be slapped around and have a cock shoved down their throat, if this was the depth of my interests I live in a state where prostitution is completely legal and you can get any kink filled for the right amount of money. My life and relationship has a major focus on self-improvement and spirituality so the aggressive and violent stuff is just a bonus not the end goal.
We find the spirituality of BDSM to complement deeply our views on things like Green Living, Chakra Energy, Paganism (not Wiccan), Health Awareness and improving ourselves through understanding of our strengths and weaknesses. Anyone wishing to join in with us must be willing to look into themselves and be comfortable with what they find.
Keep reading to find out what sort of people are unacceptable for more than sexual play and why they are unacceptable…
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How a collar relates to our dominant/submissive relationship…
Surrender4love has worn her collar for over a year straight now, it has only been taken off twice during our relationship. The first time we removed her collar was due to an infraction that put our very relationship in danger and the other was for cleaning.
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What dominance means to me (Part 1)
**start-note** It should be noted that the explanations I use bellow are in reference to OUR Long Term 24/7 TPE and not to people who come in for short to medium term play. This post should not be assumed to represent the ideals or thoughts of any other dominant that you come across, in fact I find them to be a little uncommon when speaking to many other doms in the world.**end-note**
Dominance in the family and relationship is important and one of the major factors to the success of our relationship.
I have been in many vanilla relationships in the past but they were always tarnished with the back and forth power plays that plaque most “equal” couples. Our D/s relationship has allowed me to take the reigns in our relationship and direct where the family goes, where we focus our efforts and how we get where we are going.
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A day without my collar
Thursday was the day set to dye my hair. So, first thing that morning Conquer4love took my collar off so that I wouldn’t get it all gooped up with hair dye. I had tried to prepare myself for the day, tried to emotionally get ready for being without my collar by telling myself over and over that I could handle it. Little did I realize how unprepared I actually was.
Because the second he removed my collar the whole world turned upside down and set the stage for the rest of the day.
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My Personal Need for Dominance
The following information is from my personal perspective and elaborates on my own submissive need for dominance. In no way, does this article claim to be the only way for accepted dominance towards a submissive, nor does it mean that what I find true for myself is what will be right for you. Each one of us will have a different experience relative to the individual and that is what makes the enjoyment of the Lifestyle such an expressive form in which we choose to live.
“True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.”
Henry Miller
BDSM is not abuse and should not be seen as such.
Consensual aggressive play between adults is not abusive and should not be seen as such.
Consent, it’s a simple word with simple meaning. Webster’s Dictionary defines consent as “compliance in or approval of what is done or proposed by another” and “agreement as to action or opinion”. You hear often from those who are not part of the lifestyle that BDSM is abusive. People who are not a part of the lifestyle can often mistake the bruises and scratches of rough play as signs of abuse. The BDSM lifestyle is about consensual actions taken by grown and knowledgeable adults.
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Important Places
Blog Roll
Sites that we visit, read and support:
- The Long and Winding Road of a Slave
- Master & Lady
- BDSM is Love
- Kitten In Chains
- Pierced Panties
- Defending the Raven
- pixiepie’s secrets
- doubleknot’s ruminations
- Daily Bedpost
- Roxy’s Flog Blog
- Under His Hand
- Fueling the Fires
- avralivia
- Bondage Freaky
- Submissive Reflections
- Secondhand Rose
- At Longings End
- Views of a stubborn slave
- Selena Kitt
- Eros Blog
- vanilla-impaired
- Gorean Refuge
- Ramblings of a kajira
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