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surrender4love’s journal entry: Sunday 7/13/2008
Personally, I feel that in our day to day relationship that having expectations are harder to keep up with than rules. Before I get started on that topic, I do want to say that what follows are my personal thoughts and feelings on the matter. I am in no way saying that one way is better or worse. I am just stating what works for our relationship.
With the rules you have punishment. Rules are set and not always maintained leading to punishment. Now, this is not to say that BloodLustDaddy does not whip me just for amusement because he does and he does have the right to punish me when he sees fit which can be outside of the rules being set. What I am saying here, is that in my view point the biggest reason for lists of rules within a relationship is to manage punishments in a way to keep punishments happening. I am not saying that a sub/slave needs to be punished all the time but there is something about punishments that a sub/slave needs or they would not get into the lifestyle in the first place. Also, a Dom/Master who has a perfect sub/slave with no punishments ever required doesn’t fulfill their need to punish beyond exerting basic control.
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The basics…
Rules, god I hate rules as they are only useful if they are truly enforced. Many BDSM relationships are filled with rules, checklists, questionnaires and contracts so people tend to be surprised when they find that in my dealing with surrender4love I have taken a more minimalistic approach to rules.
Rule #1 : My way may not be the best way, the fastest way or even the correct way but it is the only acceptable way.
Rule #2 : “No” is never an acceptable response to a command that is given.
Rule #3 : Do as I say.
I’m a bit needy now…
I enjoyed today, enjoyed the closeness and am excited that he will be home for another day. Now, I know that it sounds as though he were going some large distance when he really just goes to the next town to work and is home every night. The shortness of distance doesn’t mean that I like it any less.
What has always been interesting to me with BloodLustDaddy is that he is the only person that I have been able to be around all the time. Normally with me I need a certain amount of personal space in a relationship. I have never been able to be around someone as much as possible and not get tired of them or end up needing a break from them for a day or so. With BloodLustDaddy, I have never needed that space from him at all and what’s more I don’t want that space away from him.
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Making our own fireworks…
Tonight BloodLustDaddy gave me something that I have never before experienced and it is something that I will never forget. Out at our local park for the fireworks celebration, among a crowd of people camped out in the grass BloodLustDaddy pulled me aside. We sat back several feet away from our family; he on the grass with his legs spread and I sitting between his legs. I had worn a skirt to the park and as we cuddled up closer he reached his right hand down my skirt and under my panties.
Amid the fireworks going off and our family looking back at us occasionally, he worked his fingers over my clit. I was so embarrassed at the idea that anyone walking by or sitting near us would be able to look at us and know what he was doing to me. I was paranoid that we would be caught but he was making me feel so warm and I was getting so wet as he rubbed me that, it didn’t take me long not to care about being caught. He told me that he wanted me to orgasm during the fireworks…and I did. It was such a new experience being manipulated that way in public and I enjoyed every moment that he touched me. When I did cum, he put his mouth to my ear and called me “a dirty little whore”.
My overall take on this year’s Independence Day celebration: Best one Ever! Though I do wonder what’s in store for next year.
~surrender4love~
How to piss off a bunch of people in line behind you…
A while back, BloodLustDaddy had put ankle and wrist chains on me. These chains were just like my collar in that they were not made to come off unless he undid the links in the chain himself. I had been wearing these chains for over a month and had gotten used to the feel of them on my skin and was really enjoying the feeling of being bound for my Dom even when we couldn’t spend all the hours in the day together. No one had really commented on the chains and when people did notice I think that they just chalked it up to it being regular jewelry. Well, at least that what I assumed people thought until I had to make a run to the courthouse.
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A day without my collar
Thursday was the day set to dye my hair. So, first thing that morning BloodLustDaddy took my collar off so that I wouldn’t get it all gooped up with hair dye. I had tried to prepare myself for the day, tried to emotionally get ready for being without my collar by telling myself over and over that I could handle it. Little did I realize how unprepared I actually was.
Because the second he removed my collar the whole world turned upside down and set the stage for the rest of the day.
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My Personal Need for Dominance
The following information is from my personal perspective and elaborates on my own submissive need for dominance. In no way, does this article claim to be the only way for accepted dominance towards a submissive, nor does it mean that what I find true for myself is what will be right for you. Each one of us will have a different experience relative to the individual and that is what makes the enjoyment of the Lifestyle such an expressive form in which we choose to live.
“True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.”
Henry Miller
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